Eva's birthday... the outing in question... well one of them
in my post below i talked about that other incident where ppl dont believe me... well its to do with Eva's bday on Christmas Eve.
id be lying if i sed my current problems with Andrea had NOTHING to do with my decision which is that i MAY NOT go to Evas bday... but its only bout 20% of the reason... let me explain why.
Yes i do admit to being fully pissed off with Andrea due to her persistant posting of chemtrail conspiracy stuff on my FB page.... but the way she seems to treat me now is even worse... its like she has personal issues with me. However we have both demonstrated at work that we can be sworn enemies and still work side by side and not come to conflict... we are both very good at keeping to ourselves. For that reason i am prepared to tolerate Andrea at Evas party.... ideally her and I wont be talking to each other... and i doubt we will
HOWEVER of course there are OTHER reasons that will prob stop me going... of course everyone assumes that my personal issues with Andrea is the SOLE reason for me not going... NO-ONE believes me of course so i aint posting it on FB... not interested in flogging a dead horse.
But i will say my thing on here and here goes...
I am very very busy at work.. i prob wont be finishing until 3,4 maybe even 5pm on that day as its very busy in the leadup to Christmas. The party is rumoured to start at 1pm... and i hate coming to parties late. Im doing you guys a favour by not dragging my tired and grumpy ass to a fancy dress party (cant stand them at the best of times).
And also there is a chance that there could be something at mums place which does take precidence.
so there you go there are 4 reasons why i have POLITELY declined the offer to go to Evas bday... but as allways everyone turns against me and Eva herself takes it as a sign that i dont value her as a friend... um well she IS right to a certain extent.
I still cant forget the crap they were saying about me and Stipe only a few months ago... do good friends do that? nope. We did sorta bury the hatchet and carried on but this latest incident has definately opened old sores that were never fully healed from previous conflicts... the only difference between last time and this time is that my running partner Stipe is on THEIR side in the latest fallout... he too doesnt believe me... a friend of 16 years.
She is right about me not valuing her as a friend but i also have genuine reasons that are stopping me going that have nothing to do with the petty squabbles that have been the hallmark of our group over the last year or so.
Unlike last time however there is no genuine falling out between me and Eva etc so unless they start posting crap on my FB page dont expect me to start deleting and blocking ppl left right and centre.... as mentioned before i will be keeping mostly quiet on FB.. not interested in arguing with them... let the dead horse rot. i've shown my maturity by walking away... maybe even walking OUT... remember there are plusses to not being their friend.... yet to really hardcore get back into kitesurfing... its allways beckoning but things have allways got in the way... like my kites not going and me finishing too late at work. I dont walk out on friends that are genuine but if they are gonna treat me like shit then i have places to be, mail to do and kites to surf... i dont even have time to waste arguing with them on FB... im OUTA HERE
id be lying if i sed my current problems with Andrea had NOTHING to do with my decision which is that i MAY NOT go to Evas bday... but its only bout 20% of the reason... let me explain why.
Yes i do admit to being fully pissed off with Andrea due to her persistant posting of chemtrail conspiracy stuff on my FB page.... but the way she seems to treat me now is even worse... its like she has personal issues with me. However we have both demonstrated at work that we can be sworn enemies and still work side by side and not come to conflict... we are both very good at keeping to ourselves. For that reason i am prepared to tolerate Andrea at Evas party.... ideally her and I wont be talking to each other... and i doubt we will
HOWEVER of course there are OTHER reasons that will prob stop me going... of course everyone assumes that my personal issues with Andrea is the SOLE reason for me not going... NO-ONE believes me of course so i aint posting it on FB... not interested in flogging a dead horse.
But i will say my thing on here and here goes...
I am very very busy at work.. i prob wont be finishing until 3,4 maybe even 5pm on that day as its very busy in the leadup to Christmas. The party is rumoured to start at 1pm... and i hate coming to parties late. Im doing you guys a favour by not dragging my tired and grumpy ass to a fancy dress party (cant stand them at the best of times).
And also there is a chance that there could be something at mums place which does take precidence.
so there you go there are 4 reasons why i have POLITELY declined the offer to go to Evas bday... but as allways everyone turns against me and Eva herself takes it as a sign that i dont value her as a friend... um well she IS right to a certain extent.
I still cant forget the crap they were saying about me and Stipe only a few months ago... do good friends do that? nope. We did sorta bury the hatchet and carried on but this latest incident has definately opened old sores that were never fully healed from previous conflicts... the only difference between last time and this time is that my running partner Stipe is on THEIR side in the latest fallout... he too doesnt believe me... a friend of 16 years.
She is right about me not valuing her as a friend but i also have genuine reasons that are stopping me going that have nothing to do with the petty squabbles that have been the hallmark of our group over the last year or so.
Unlike last time however there is no genuine falling out between me and Eva etc so unless they start posting crap on my FB page dont expect me to start deleting and blocking ppl left right and centre.... as mentioned before i will be keeping mostly quiet on FB.. not interested in arguing with them... let the dead horse rot. i've shown my maturity by walking away... maybe even walking OUT... remember there are plusses to not being their friend.... yet to really hardcore get back into kitesurfing... its allways beckoning but things have allways got in the way... like my kites not going and me finishing too late at work. I dont walk out on friends that are genuine but if they are gonna treat me like shit then i have places to be, mail to do and kites to surf... i dont even have time to waste arguing with them on FB... im OUTA HERE
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