a truce
ok things have improved HEAPS between us. As i mentioned before i did unblock Eva and both her and Andrea actually did conduct themselves properly and we actually were able to sort a few things out. whilst i haven't yet sent them friend requests i am quite keen on having them on my friends list... i only remove ppl of block ppl who i consider a "threat" to my FB page so yes at a later date i will be adding them again if they accept. It should be me who makes the move because i was the one who made the move to delete them.
However in real life i will never be friends with them again. i've outlined my reasons why... the mian one being that i'm back into kiting and just like before i was ready to sleep once i came home after a good kite sesh. when i'm not kiiting i will be gym training etc etc... i allways go to the gym solo now... Devon who i used to train with is NOT one of those ppl who has flamed me in the past so i guess i can still hang out with him. Sori ladies but the guys in the group have never sworn at me like you have... and thats a FACT with the exception of one... i mentioned lodging arrangements as a reason for me hanging with ppl... i am quite happy for ppl to pay my mortgage every week and the current setup at my place works fine. Being a female is NOT an excuse to flame me as has been demonstrated by the majority of women on my site being polite... but the select few have crossed the line and they WILL be seeing lot less of me.
But lets be honest here most ppl will be seeing much less of me which the exception of my kiting friends who of course will be seeing MORE of me haha. And also there are still the BIG outings like Scotts bday in November which i WILL be going to so in all honestly i WILL be seeing the flamers again... just not every week.
so its actually my decision to KITE which is the real reason why i wont be hanging with ppl... but being abused on FB obviously influenced that decision to get back into kitesurfing... a sport which in the past has had frustrations of its own... remember kiteforum.co.nz in 2004/2005? And also remember that there was a reason why i stopped fullon kiting in 2008. so in a way i'm jumping from the frying pan into the fire! but as they say... better the devil you know and unlike the ppl i'm getting abuse from at da mo... the majority of my haters in the kiteboarding scene are GUYS... and i speak their language
However in real life i will never be friends with them again. i've outlined my reasons why... the mian one being that i'm back into kiting and just like before i was ready to sleep once i came home after a good kite sesh. when i'm not kiiting i will be gym training etc etc... i allways go to the gym solo now... Devon who i used to train with is NOT one of those ppl who has flamed me in the past so i guess i can still hang out with him. Sori ladies but the guys in the group have never sworn at me like you have... and thats a FACT with the exception of one... i mentioned lodging arrangements as a reason for me hanging with ppl... i am quite happy for ppl to pay my mortgage every week and the current setup at my place works fine. Being a female is NOT an excuse to flame me as has been demonstrated by the majority of women on my site being polite... but the select few have crossed the line and they WILL be seeing lot less of me.
But lets be honest here most ppl will be seeing much less of me which the exception of my kiting friends who of course will be seeing MORE of me haha. And also there are still the BIG outings like Scotts bday in November which i WILL be going to so in all honestly i WILL be seeing the flamers again... just not every week.
so its actually my decision to KITE which is the real reason why i wont be hanging with ppl... but being abused on FB obviously influenced that decision to get back into kitesurfing... a sport which in the past has had frustrations of its own... remember kiteforum.co.nz in 2004/2005? And also remember that there was a reason why i stopped fullon kiting in 2008. so in a way i'm jumping from the frying pan into the fire! but as they say... better the devil you know and unlike the ppl i'm getting abuse from at da mo... the majority of my haters in the kiteboarding scene are GUYS... and i speak their language
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